NETHERLANDS 20-year-old young man, an university students, died from autoerotic asphyxiation inside his room at the house he was renting with other students. He took a common share vacuum to his room. Telling others that he will vacuum his room and not to disturb him. Once inside he took his jeans off, had attached already premade handmade tube to the hose of vacuum cleaner, got on his bed together with vacuum, had inserted his penis into a tube and then turning vacuum on.
He also decided to add some strangulation/suffocation, for an even greater arousal effect. Putting plastic bag over his head and then wrapping two tied together bungee cords over it and the other ends wrapped and hook secured around his wrists. So he could pull on the noose tight, strangle suffocating himself.
His body was found about 20 minutes after he took vacuum cleaner to his room, by other student roommates. When they went to complain about the nonstop loud vacuum noise for so long, but without any sign that anyone was even moving it around to vacuum. They knocked repeatedly and called for him, but he did not answer. So they forced their way in and had discovered him motionless on bed, just like in the first pic.
They turned the vacuum off and checked his pulse. But after feeling no heartbeat did not even try to take the bag off and to do mouth to mouth or any resuscitation and letting his body be as is and just calling the police. Perhaps because they felt it was already too late to do anything… or other option, and it is just a speculation, because they were fuming angry at him for using their common share vacuum that they have all used too and now leaving them without a vacuum that they would ever want to touch again. And so felt he deserved it and let him be dead for sure with the bag still on. May be even not checking any pulse at all or even if checking and detecting some faint heartbeat, then decided to just let him die for sure by the time police or medics arrive.
If you're thinking about self-harm, please stop and recognize that this won't solve the pain you're feeling. While it might seem like a way to cope, it leaves lasting scars, not just on your body but on your heart as well. There are healthier, safer ways to manage your emotions.
Every wound you inflict is a cry for help. You are not alone. Reaching out to someone you trust can be the first step toward finding a way out of this dark place. You deserve kindness, support, and real healing.
If you need immediate help, please contact a helpline.
