HOBBS, NEW MEXICO, USA Police officers were called to a case involving a hanged person inside a house, on a weight bench. At first glance, it appeared to be a woman, but upon closer inspection, they discovered it was a man wearing a women’s wig and women’s clothing. He was even wearing makeup and jewelry.
Evidence secured at the scene suggested that the man often engaged in perverse autoerotic activities, including restricting oxygen flow during masturbation. There was a mirror placed in front of him, allowing him to see himself in that position. Nothing was found that disproved the idea that he accidentally hanged himself during autoerotic activities.
The entire house was filled with cross-dressing and sexual accessories. Handbags, jewelry, lingerie, and high-quality wigs were found – worth tens of thousands of dollars. Additionally, perverse sexual items used in BDSM practices were discovered. A dildo with traces of feces was also found, along with several Polaroid photos showing him performing oral sex on a male mannequin and hanging himself with ropes and chains while dressed in women’s clothing.
The man’s ex-wife told police that he had always been a pervert. Toward the end of their marriage, she could no longer handle his obsession with bondage sex and pain. She claimed that was the main reason for their divorce. She said she had caught him masturbating in women’s underwear several times.
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