INDIA – MARCH 19, 2020 Depression stemming from an arranged marriage drove young Priya Sonya to take her own life. She was found hanged in her room by her parents, who denied any responsibility for her death.
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- Priya Sonya 1
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- Priya Sonya 2
Arranged marriages unfortunately have a long tradition in India. Families often select a life partner for their children based on caste, economic status, family reputation, or education. Arranged marriages can be successful and bring stability, but they can also create tension, especially if one party disagrees and is pressured by their parents. In some cases, parents even resort to psychological or physical abuse.
The government and NGOs emphasize that the consent of both partners must always be key and work to reduce the number of child and forced marriages. Laws against domestic violence and sexual coercion protect individuals who feel threatened by pressure or abuse.
Modern India also supports contemporary forms of arranged marriages, where families assist in finding a suitable partner but the final decision rests with the individual. Campaigns and educational programs further highlight the importance of women’s economic independence and education in choosing a partner.
If you’re thinking about suicide, please stop and recognize that your pain is not permanent, but this step would be. It may feel like there’s no other way, but there is hope, even if it’s hard to see right now. Your feelings are temporary, and with help, they can pass.
Talking about what you're going through might feel difficult, but it’s the first step toward healing. Don’t turn away from the people who want to support you. Life can offer more than what you're feeling right now, and the pain doesn't have to last forever. You deserve help, and it’s available.
If you need immediate help, please contact a helpline.
